Looks like one of my rants on ye Olde Facebook rustled a few jimmies.
Last night I got into a bit of a shouting match with someone I knew from high school. The reason we fought isn’t important.
What is important is the fact that even though I did not mean to intentionally piss anyone off… I still did. In fact the guy “kinda” overreacted and because of one small disagreement he decided to terminate our decade of friendship.
What the hell?
Well at least I know he probably never wanted to be my friend.
The only thing I did wrong was to stand up to what I believed in. There was no way I was going to accommodate any of his ideologies, because they COMPLETELY conflicted with what I believe in.
This is major part about being “full you” in your emails.
If you’re lukewarm in your personal delivery then that means you’re trying to accommodate everyone. If you try accommodating everyone then you’re going to end up accommodating nobody because you’ll be a walking mess of opposing ideas.
It goes back to one of the first lessons I learn in my pick up artist days.
I was taught that if EVERY girl I met liked me… then that meant I wasn’t being myself. It meant I was ALWAYS altering my behavior and personality to suit who I was talking to. It meant instead of being me… I was being a pretender.
If was being the real me, then I was going to meet a few girls who absolutely HATED my personality. And thankfully I do.
If was being the real me, then I was going to meet a few girls who I would NEVER be compatible with, whether sexually or in terms of personality. And thankfully, I do.
Being the “full you” is more about protecting yourself from the people you don’t get along with in your emails… and less about you protecting THEM from you.
Last thing you want to be is a pretender.
People can sniff em out good.
It’s creepy I tell ya.
It’s like we’re born with a freaky sixth sense that tells us if someone is faking their personality. And the worst part about faking your personality is how it eats you up on the inside.
Instead what you want to be is the definitive version of who YOU are. Does this mean everyone is going to like you?
In fact it will mean roughly half the people you meet and half the people who find you and your business are going to hate you. Heck, I wouldn’t be surprised if there’s someone out there who wants my head on a platter.
I wouldn’t be surprised if somebody out there prays for my death.
That kinda crazy shit happens.
So, once again.. be you in your emails.
Stop trying to please everyone.
It’s not gonna get you anywhere and you’re only going to look like a cheap poser.
With no passion to boot.
Moving on, If you want emails and copy that are 100% you, and filled with your personality then you and I should team up. Follow the link below and go apply for you complementary Skype call with me.
And if we’re a good fit I’ll crank out emails that’ll make those who love you want to buy from you. And make those who hate you probably hate you more… as if they where going to buy from you anyways.
Can’t make an omelet without breaking a few eggs as they say.
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And I’ll get back to you.
Till the next wave of madness… Vae Victis…
“On with the show”