Someone close to me ( whose identity won’t be revealed because interwebz ) FINALLY followed my advice and got the girl he wanted.
It took him long enough. He was stuck in the “ambiguous” zone with her, not knowing whether he was just a friend or whether she actually liked him. Could’ve been worse though… she could’ve used him as a walking ATM machine but she wasn’t that type of girl thankfully.
Now, I told this guy one simple thing he could do to find out exactly where he stood with the girl. Unfortunately my advice flies right in the face of conventional dating advice. Most guys ( especially the unenlightened ones ) would go so far as to call me insane if they heard what I have to say.
And rightfully so.
My advice works but it takes balls to implement.
In fact, it took this guy over two months before he bit the bullet and actually did what I told him. Smart guy. Slow but smart.
About damn time, if you asked me.
Nothing’s worse than talking to someone you like and NOT knowing where you stand with them. The anxiety is painful to bear and you’ll be wasting your time wondering whether or not the person likes you back.
In fact, I personally believe THIS alone is 77% of the reason why most teenagers today are whining bags of emotions. Can’t get their love lives straightened up… meh
Funny thing is, it’s almost the same thing with email.
When someone opts into your email list you never know if they’re just there to lurk, or if they’re potential customers. And if you never do anything about it you’ll probably never find out in most cases.
People who are your future buyers and customers will eventually buy from you if you actually let them know something is for sale.
Otherwise you’re going to be permanantly stuck in the ambiguous zone with them. Never knowing if they’re going to hand over their moolah to you or if they’re going to mooch off your email content and never buy anything from you.
This is why you must sell in your emails.
To quickly filter out the lurkers and get the buyers to raise their hands.
And if you want my help to get YOUR buyers on your list to raise THEIR hands, go apply for a complementary email funnel beatdown. Where I’ll analyse your email funnel and tell you what you’re doing wrong.
And I’ll get back to you ASAP
…Till the next wave of madness.. Vae Victis